Fun First Date Ideas That Will Lead to Date #2!
So, after months of dedicating time to building yourself, hanging out with your pals, taking up a new hobby, binge-watching your favorite TV show, and immersing yourself in work, you want to get back into the dating cycle.
At this time, you're giddy with excitement and probably worrying yourself to death about what best to wear, where to go, what could go wrong, and whatnot! Relax!
If you plan to have a date with that special somebody soon and you're seeking help to make it go seamless, you've come to the right place. We'll help you plan a remarkable first-time date.
Schedule the venue
The first step to achieving a perfect date night is planning it. And trust me, this step is usually the most daunting. You find yourself ( or your date interest) saying things like, "I have nothing in mind; whatever you pick is fine by me."
Ensuring that everything on your first date works out well can be challenging but try not to stress yourself which can dampen your mood. What's important is that you spend ample time with your partner, learn new things, engage yourselves, and connect on different levels.
Depending on where your collective interests lie, you can pick out a restaurant, a cinema, a park, a museum, or a library. Also, put in mind your budget before selecting a venue.
Plan the date and time
Spontaneous dates are the best. The element of surprise that comes with experiencing them is always memorable. However, it is essential to map out the exact date and time to avoid disappointments.
Check-in with the venue you have chosen to know their availability for the date and time you have picked, make reservations if possible, and communicate all your plans with your significant other to ensure that everything runs smoothly. Finally, stay committed to your plans.
Showing up to a movie date late or appearing at a restaurant when they are closed or about closing is a quick way to ruin your first date. All of these are avoidable.
Dress classy
We understand that your better half might be so hot and sexy, and it might be tempting to upstage them by showing up looking sexy and exposing some skin. Save that for future dates. Dress smartly and classy in an outfit that you're comfortable wearing. Your date should feel comfortable with you, too. Imagine showing up with your cleavage spilling all over your outfit. You might send the wrong message and attract unwanted attention.
Make things flow naturally.
To have a successful date, it's best to leave things unforced. It's ideal to make plans but leave room for some spontaneous activities. For example, when visiting a restaurant, try to pick out a picturesque environment and head over for a fun photograph before your meals. Or engage in some karaoke if there's provision for that. No matter how bad the photos or song might beof, you'll relish those moments in the coming years.
Get to know each other.
The part of first dates that everyone dreads is "getting to know each other." This stage makes or breaks a relationship. Everyone is tired of the generic "tell me about yourself," "how are you?" and "what are your plans?" So cliche. Try something new this time.
For starters, ask puzzling and intriguing questions that will make your significant other rack their brain. Trust us; it'll be fun! For example, you can ask questions like, "summer, winter, and fall, which is your favorite for your business?" Or "if you find yourself in a desert, what are the three most important things you'd need for survival before help comes along?' "If it was the only thing left in the world, what food would make you starve to death?"
These questions are light, fun, and decent. They are a great way to engage one another without boring yourselves to death.
Keep technology away
Your phones, MacBooks, iPads, and computers should be banished when you have one-on-one time with a special someone for the first time. Technology has a way of interrupting dates. And they are unnecessary distractions.
Give yourself good memories.
Before you bid yourselves goodbye, you should leave a lasting impression on one another. You can either take a cute photo together or give each other small gifts to take home. This aims to remind yourselves of each other and create memories that will be etched in your memories.
What can we do on our first date?
These are some awesome ideas for your first date;
● Cooking your favorite meals together
● Visiting an amusement park
● Bowling
● Zip lining/Hiking
● Strolling
● Doing community service
● Hitting up an arcade
● Pottery making
● Paint-balling or something active/competitive
Written By: Caroline Okoh Nykoe
