Fun First Date Ideas That Will Lead to Date #2!

So, after months of dedicating time to building yourself, hanging out with your pals, taking up a new hobby, binge-watching your favorite TV show, and immersing yourself in work, you want to get back into the dating cycle.

At this time, you're giddy with excitement and probably worrying yourself to death about what best to wear, where to go, what could go wrong, and whatnot! Relax!

If you plan to have a date with that special somebody soon and you're seeking help to make it go seamless, you've come to the right place. We'll help you plan a remarkable first-time date.

Schedule the venue

The first step to achieving a perfect date night is planning it. And trust me, this step is usually the most daunting. You find yourself ( or your date interest) saying things like, "I have nothing in mind; whatever you pick is fine by me." 

Ensuring that everything on your first date works out well can be challenging but try not to stress yourself which can dampen your mood. What's important is that you spend ample time with your partner, learn new things, engage yourselves, and connect on different levels.

Depending on where your collective interests lie, you can pick out a restaurant, a cinema, a park, a museum, or a library. Also, put in mind your budget before selecting a venue.

Plan the date and time

Spontaneous dates are the best. The element of surprise that comes with experiencing them is always memorable. However, it is essential to map out the exact date and time to avoid disappointments.

Check-in with the venue you have chosen to know their availability for the date and time you have picked, make reservations if possible, and communicate all your plans with your significant other to ensure that everything runs smoothly. Finally, stay committed to your plans.

Showing up to a movie date late or appearing at a restaurant when they are closed or about closing is a quick way to ruin your first date. All of these are avoidable.

Dress classy

We understand that your better half might be so hot and sexy, and it might be tempting to upstage them by showing up looking sexy and exposing some skin. Save that for future dates. Dress smartly and classy in an outfit that you're comfortable wearing. Your date should feel comfortable with you, too. Imagine showing up with your cleavage spilling all over your outfit. You might send the wrong message and attract unwanted attention.

Make things flow naturally.

To have a successful date, it's best to leave things unforced. It's ideal to make plans but leave room for some spontaneous activities. For example, when visiting a restaurant, try to pick out a picturesque environment and head over for a fun photograph before your meals. Or engage in some karaoke if there's provision for that. No matter how bad the photos or song might beof, you'll relish those moments in the coming years.

Get to know each other.

The part of first dates that everyone dreads is "getting to know each other." This stage makes or breaks a relationship. Everyone is tired of the generic "tell me about yourself," "how are you?" and "what are your plans?" So cliche. Try something new this time.

For starters, ask puzzling and intriguing questions that will make your significant other rack their brain. Trust us; it'll be fun! For example, you can ask questions like, "summer, winter, and fall, which is your favorite for your business?" Or "if you find yourself in a desert, what are the three most important things you'd need for survival before help comes along?' "If it was the only thing left in the world, what food would make you starve to death?"

These questions are light, fun, and decent. They are a great way to engage one another without boring yourselves to death.

Keep technology away

Your phones, MacBooks, iPads, and computers should be banished when you have one-on-one time with a special someone for the first time. Technology has a way of interrupting dates. And they are unnecessary distractions.

Give yourself good memories.

Before you bid yourselves goodbye, you should leave a lasting impression on one another. You can either take a cute photo together or give each other small gifts to take home. This aims to remind yourselves of each other and create memories that will be etched in your memories.

What can we do on our first date?

These are some awesome ideas for your first date;

●      Cooking your favorite meals together

●      Visiting an amusement park

●      Bowling

●      Zip lining/Hiking

●      Strolling

●      Doing community service

●      Hitting up an arcade

●      Pottery making

●    Paint-balling or something active/competitive

Written By: Caroline Okoh Nykoe

6 Amazing Ways to Boost Your Libido Naturally

We live in a world that has portrayed constant high libido as an everyday thing. Social media and societal pressure are not helping either, as they continue to idolize men and women whose sex drives are off the roof.

In reality, not everybody's libido is going to stay up at all times. At a time in your life, you may notice that your desire to have sex has reduced - it is normal, at least to an extent. We understand that a  decreased sex drive

can dent your confidence and put a strain on your relationship, especially if your partner has a high libido.

 If this sounds like you worry not. We'll help walk you through solutions to help get you hungry and steamy when it’s time to get laid.

Why is my libido low?

A wide array of factors can cause low libido. Mostly, these are either physical or psychological.

 Physical factors that can trigger a low sex drive are;

●      Hormonal imbalances

●      Drug use and abuse

●      Exercise (or lack of it).

●      Certain medications

●      Alcohol consumption

 Psychological factors that can cause your libido to dip include:

●      Stress

●      Anxiety

●      Depression

 If you have zeroed on the cause of your lack of enthusiasm to make love, you are halfway on your journey to your best sex life.

How can I increase my libido?

You can have an enjoyable and healthy sex life regardless of the concerns that are plaguing you. All you need is to modify a few habits, and your intimacy game will be on fire.

 Wondering how to deal? Here's how;

Rev up your diet

Junks and carbs are delicious to consume, but your sex drive will pay dearly if you constantly indulge in your dietary guilty pleasures. To ensure that you are always in the “mood,”  you'll have to include a healthful, wholesome diet in your personal care regimen.

Replace processed and sugary foods with our good mood foods: asparagus, chocolates, avocadoes, almonds, strawberries, walnuts, eggs, and peaches. These foods are natural aphrodisiacs that'll make you anticipate lovemaking.

Spice up your sex life

Sometimes, the reason why your sex drive wanes is that your sex life has gone cold. To ignite the spark of intimacy, you should consider spicing things up. Try new things and experiences. For a start, you do not have to go overboard. You can plan an intimate bedroom time with your partner by lighting candles and performing sensual massages with stimulating oils. Incorporate new sex styles that are you both comfortable with.

Create a sexual atmosphere by burning incenses that will put you in the mood for sex.

 For women who have just had babies, hormonal imbalances and change in the body can affect sex drive; you can keep things hot by practicing some yoni Steaming.

Worship your body

To worship your body means to treat it like a precious, sacred entity. The first step to pleasuring your partner is by learning how to pleasure yourself first. Like a maze, you have to discover every twist, turns, and corner that tick your G-spot. Find out what makes you aroused and the places that make you drip. From there, you can lead your partner on an adventure to getting your big "O."

Curb stress and anxiety

Stress and anxiety can cause a setback in your sex life. De-stress by engaging in relaxing activities such as soaking in a warm bathtub with your partner. Warm bath soaks can help relax your body while bonding with your better half.

 If you are going through a rough patch, you can either sort it out by talking to your partner or anyone you are close to. You can go the extra mile to visit a therapist if you feel things have gotten out of hand.

Get ample sleep

Lack of regular sleep can make you cranky and irritable, and no one wants that. To enjoy your sex life, ensure you take some time off to rest. Abandon every activity that will interfere with your sleep cycle

; waking up refreshed and well-rested puts you in a state of pure bliss.

Do away with some ill habits

If you look forward to a pleasurable time between the sheets, you must be willing to go easy on the bottle and cigarettes. Smoking kills your sex drive by affecting your heart rate. On the other hand, if you are a binge drinker, you may get sexually aroused after drinking, but you'll notice that your sexual urge dies when the effects of the alcohol kick in.

Sex is fun and natural and should never be spoken about in hushed tones. If you are dealing with issues in your sex life, we advise you to feel free and speak up to get the help you need. Every human has a primal urge, and it is only fair that you enjoy the carnal desires you have. After all, life is too short for you to be having boring sex.

 BY: Caroline Okoh Nkoye